We meet people for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. I know that my purpose in this lifetime is the help people fall back in love with themselves.
Healing is not a one-size-fits-all and can feel isolating - like you are the only one experiencing what you are experiencing. I'm here to serve as an anchor and beacon of light to guide you home.
I grew up in a demanding authoritarian-type military household. Dad a former marine who still works for the sheriff’s department today.
My mother: emotionally immature and insecure. She was fixated on an image with shame, isolation, and secrecy, the modus operandi. Thin had value. And I was to have no needs.
I spent years going to different specialists because of my health. Whenever I was in times of stress, my digestive and elimination system were affected. To the point that in college, I lost about 20 pounds during my first few months of school and developed Hemorrhoids because of the constant state of stress I had put my body under. I nearly ate over the toilet because no food would stay inside me. Which ultimately lead me to not want to eat anything.
A decade later, during my final years in corporate America, I was on the verge of developing ulcers in my stomach from the stress. I would find myself on the bathroom stall floor in the fetal position, sweat dripping down my face from the pain and I couldn’t walk but the doctors could find nothing wrong.
These things were ALL happening to me because of the disconnect my body, mind, and soul were at.
In 2020, the life I had spent countless hours curating was no longer working for me. I was working at my first and only corporate "Big-Kid-Job" in sales for nearly a decade when one day I realized that my entire life was being lived for others. The awareness happened in an instant. I was functioning under the guise of deceit – deceit of my own heart.
One day I questioned a manager on a decision. I was suspended immediately. I subsequently resigned. I didn’t have the words for it at the time...but I was working for a cult. There even used to be jokes internally at the organization that you can’t spell culture without cult.
The indoctrination of new employees was of the utmost importance. The culture was so highly emphasized from day one, whether it be the clothing we wore, the words we spoke, or the behaviors we exhibited. We were expected to be robots. And the higher I went up in the organization, the less autonomy I had.
I’ve come to characterize a cult by two primary definitions:
#1 No ability to question leadership
#2 They use your own values against you
The company I worked for wanted to know your secrets and pain points to use against you and keep you in line. Interestingly enough, the same tactics used by my mother. When you grow up being taught your value, you will inevitably continue to attract the same energy (experiences) until your beliefs change because of your alignment.
My entire world was crumbling around me even though it was on my own accord. What I did know to be true was the pain I was experiencing inside of me was too immense. There had to be more to life. "Surely, I’m not here to work until I can retire and then die?" I said to myself.
The best way I’ve found to describe it is that my true authentic self resided at one end of the world, and I was living on the other. Keeping up the façade wasn’t sustainable anymore.
I liken my story to that of the Phoenix Rising by the ancient Greeks and Egyptians. The mythical bird, according to legend symbolizes immortality, resurrection, and life after death. To rise like a Phoenix from the ashes means to emerge from a catastrophe stronger, smarter, and more powerful.
I had literally set the life I had created ablaze without knowing where or who I would be afterward.
It didn’t matter.
If hell was what waited for me on the other side, it was better than the “heaven” I had been existing in.
It took about 9 months for me to come to the realization that I was having a spiritual awakening.
Today, two years after the start of the awakening I feel blessed to be alive.
I am more connected to source, God, than I ever thought possible. I didn’t even know that there was something greater than myself that existed before 2020.
I now know what authentic purpose feels like.
I now know that I am divine, as are you.
The infinite powers of the universe inhabit all of us. I am able to connect energetically to anything or anyone.
My purpose is to help people fall back in love with themselves. I help people at crossroads. People who feel stagnant. People who need clarity. People who feel like they have been “here” before.
Maybe you’ve noticed a pattern in your behavior but can’t quite connect the dots.
Some of my clients use my services like counseling or talk therapy. They find meeting with me makes life brighter.
However you have found me today, it is not by accident.
When you meet with me and spirit, we provide a safe space for you to be authentic and vulnerable. We will ask you questions and listen.
While there will be messages shared with you from the spiritual dimension, simply hearing something won’t solicit a change in behavior or thoughts. Sometimes we have been in an operating rhythm for so long that we need an outside perspective to shed new light on the path we are currently on to help us see.
The messages come from a place of reverence, love, peace, hope, and prosperity. We are not here to tell you the lottery numbers or predict every detail of your future. My gifts help people heal, and that is their purpose.
We are born into this life whole and with a purpose. A purpose that burns so intensely, language has created a word for it, passion. Throughout life pieces of our authentic self become out of alignment. It starts with our parents and society but there is an opportunity to experience life full of non-judgmental, unconditional love.
You are loved and love simply because it is true.
I know my purpose is to help people fall back in love with themselves.
My gifts are a blessing and I am called to share them with you. My hope in doing so, is to help guide you to remember your power, your gifts, and purpose in this life which have been with you since the beginning.
Tiffany Hill Cook